Can You Truly Be Kind in the Audio Industry While Dealing With Your Own Imposter Syndrome?

From what I've learned, navigating the competitive labyrinth of professional audio engineering and production isn't just about having the right gear or knowledge—it's about mastering the subtle art of being both professional and genuinely nice.

I'm quickly typing up this blog inspired by Warren Huart's recent YouTube short on Produce Like a Pro. He absolutely hits home why he chooses "Nice over Smart".

I interviewed Warren almost 3 years ago and low and behold, he was one of the nicest people you could meet.

Watch here: https://www.youtube.com/live/dhF48JZQAMs?si=JlZeIVH6YzJGnFtO

His YouTube channel, Produce Like A Pro, as we all know, is wildly successful.

However, here's the kicker....not once have I seen or heard of any brutal negativity on his guest interviews, educational content, product reviews, etc

Sadly, the vast majority of social media reward narcissistic behaviour.

Would the 1000s of keyboard warriors on Twitter (X) spout half the rubbish they do face to face with folks.

Doubt it.

So why are some folks in the audio industry: a) Jealous; b) Massively too protective; c) Basically tell everyone around them to bend the knee and lick the crumbs off the floor post studio sandwich...or crisps (chips to US folks!)...you get the analogy!

Here's some maths...

I worked out in the banking world from 2008 to 2021 as a Customer Adviser/Personal Banker/Mortgage Quoter and excluding holidays, I worked 288 days a year in a bank branch interviewing 5 people, an hour each per day. So that's 1440 people a year, times by 11 years....

15,840 people approx, who I have interviewed face-to-face telling me their life stories, crying on me, asking to borrow money, planning their dream home, screaming at me, flirting, burping, farting....I've seen pretty much every human from every walk of life....roughly 80% of people I've noticed are decent human beings....maybe 10% misunderstood, 10% of folks just love a slanging match!

What is true, however, is that the vast majority of human beings are a little bit quirky, those are my favourite kinds of people!

My dreary 9-5 job inspired me to interview over 30 pro audio engineers/producers/musicians on a live stream, and I was still nervous, suffering from imposter syndrome!

I genuinely don't care if I talk to someone who is multi-millionaire who has endless Grammys (however, I will massively respect them, of course!) or if someone is just starting out and wondering how to plug in their first interface.

I'm always a bit nervous, whether that be looking a shop assistant in the eyes, or making a phone call, a video chat....

What I'm trying to tell you is that's ok! It's how you conquer your imposter syndrome that truly defines your character!

This balancing act of being nice and professional is not just beneficial; it's absolutely vital for long-term success. Let me share why cultivating a professional, amiable demeanour not only helps dismantle the gnawing doubts of imposter syndrome but also boosts your standing in the industry.

The Importance of Professional Kindness

Professional kindness is your secret weapon. Here’s what I learned in music and finance:

Strengthens Professional Relationships: Every handshake, every nod of acknowledgment counts. Once, during a tense loan interview, a simple act of kindness—offering a stressed customer a coffee—broke the ice and set the tone for a successful meeting - which in turn led to more referrals. This demeanour grounded in respect doesn't just build trust; it opens doors to more warm contacts that might otherwise remain locked.

Encourages Better Team Dynamics: a studio's vibe can make or break the creative spirit. An inclusive and encouraging approach ensures everyone feels part of the team, leading to innovative outcomes.

Promotes a Supportive Work Culture Online and In Person: There’s nothing like the feeling of walking into a studio where everyone’s ideas are valued or logging onto a video call to see the other person smiling and waving. Creating such an environment boosts morale and, frankly, makes daily grinds a lot more enjoyable.

Confronting Imposter Syndrome

Imposter syndrome haunts me, constantly—I feel like a fraud despite varied of evident success. It's more common than you might think, and yes, it hits even the best of us—obviously me included!

Tactics to Overcome Imposter Syndrome

Recognise the Phenomenon: Knowing that these feelings are normal and widespread among talented professionals helped me see them as mere echoes of self-doubt, not realities.

Open Up About Your Experiences: Talking about imposter syndrome with peers was like turning on a light in a dim room. It’s reassuring to know that even the most respected pros have their moments of doubt.

Document Your Successes: I keep a "brag folder"—a collection of positive feedback, milestones, and successful projects. Whenever doubt creeps in, flipping through this folder boosts my confidence.

Commit to Lifelong Learning: Viewing education as a journey rather than a destination keeps me grounded and curious, qualities that are essential in our ever-evolving field.

Leverage Your Network for Support: The advice and perspective from mentors and colleagues are invaluable. They remind me that we're all part of a community, supporting each other through ups and downs.

Balancing Professionalism with Approachability

Getting this mix right is crucial. It ensures that your professional relationships are both respectful and warmly personal.

Establish Clear Boundaries: Being professional means knowing where to draw the line. It’s about respecting your time and that of others, without coming off as distant.

Practice Effective Communication: Clear, considerate communication has saved many sessions from going off the rails. It’s about ensuring everyone is on the same page and feels heard.

Be Proactive in Assistance: Offering help not only builds bonds but also establishes a culture of cooperation. It’s about being the person others can rely on when the chips are down.

Advocate for Mutual Support: Creating an environment where asking for help is seen as a strength fosters a team dynamic where everyone can thrive.

In our industry, your professional demeanour and technical skills go hand in hand. By promoting a respectful and collaborative atmosphere, you not only keep imposter syndrome at bay but also pave the way for fulfilling projects and lasting relationships. Remember, the respect and kindness you show every day are not just professional courtesies—they're the building blocks of your career. Let's keep the conversation going and continue to support each other, every step of the way.

Rich Steve Beck (aka Richard Beck CeMAP certified by The London Institute of Banking and Finance) is the creator and owner of Produce Mix Fix Conquer and producemixfix.com. As well as being a Mastering Engineer, Blogger, Podcast Interviewer and Community Leader, Rich has 20 years + experience in finance, insurance, account management and online marketing. This will be a regular blog supporting new up and coming audio engineers and producers as well as hopefully throwing around some fresh ideas to industry veterans to help assist sustainability. Cherry pick what is helpful, leave behind what you don't need. Good luck on your audio adventures!